I like going for walks and walking on the beach or ocean like spending time with family and friends and i like my a lone time once in while i like weekend get aways i like to go to warm climates in the winter cuz winter here in Vermont is to long the guy I'm looking for has to be clean and not gay no drugs is caring person and is willing to spend a little of his time with me I'm not paying anyone's way in the relationship i have tattoos four of them communication is a big pet pee of mine someone that is patient and if there's any disagreement I'd like to settle it before going to bed I think that a relationship should be 50/50 not 50/40 it doesn't work that way