Well for me life is small journey where you just cannot accomplish everything. We don't know what's in store for us in our after lives. So it is better to enjoy life to the fullest. I go by a simple philosophy of live life king size. Well I feel life is a roller-coaster ride and you just cannot fix the priorities on a single individual. So you must have to have the presence of another woman in your life. I do have a troubled marriage but reliance on a partner is just isn't worthed.